Private Insights on Influence

They Must Be Mad… No, You’re Just Naive

Why Political Moves Don’t Make Sense — Until You Start Connecting the Dots You’ve seen it. A political decision that defies logic. A leader saying one thing and doing the opposite. A government prioritising something no one asked for, while ignoring what matters most....

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How to Spot the Game Behind the Game: Hidden Agendas

Ever feel like you’re being played? The headlines scream. The narratives twist. The players talk big — but deliver little. And still, most people go along with it. They share the outrage. Pick a side. Parrot the surface-level take. But power isn’t usually found in...

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How to Be Respected Without Begging, Shouting or Performing

Respect. It’s one of the most sought-after outcomes in leadership. People want to feel it. They want to command it. And far too often… they go about it the wrong way. They perform. They posture. They talk themselves up. And all of that? Signals neediness. The more you...

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Releasing Your Inner Control Freak

Let’s be honest. If you’re a high performer, you’ve probably said it: “It’s easier if I just do it myself.” “No one else will get it right.” “I can’t afford to let this slip.” It sounds smart. Responsible. Even noble. But over time, that attitude becomes a trap. A...

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The Subtle Errors That Quietly Drain Your Power

Power isn’t always lost in dramatic moments. More often, it’s leaked—slowly, subtly—through unconscious habits. The way you speak. The way you show up. The way you seek reassurance, approval, or permission. None of it feels like a big deal in the moment. But over...

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The Hidden Power of Showing Up

Everyone wants to succeed. Most people even know what to do. But very few people do it…consistently. They start strong. They act once or twice. Then they get distracted, discouraged, or bored. And nothing changes. The truth is simple, but uncomfortable: Success...

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